**It can almost be said that in all joint lives, the amount of love and affection fades with the passage of time, but in any case, there are a series of simple ways that by doing them and following some dos and don'ts, you can witness love and intimacy in your life together... In this article, we will examine some of these methods..

**Change of love with the passage of time** **Love during engagement is different from love after marriage.... Love before marriage is more based on physical attraction, intimacy and passion, but for people who are married, it means more love and loyalty.... It is normal that the intensity and passion of a relationship changes over time and it is very common that it decreases after marriage.... After marriage, we are used to each other much more than what we are used to.* **In a survey of newlyweds and grooms in America, almost half of them had doubts about continuing their marriage... since they faced important marital issues and problems in the first year of marriage.... nearly 40% of them found marriage more difficult than they expected and mentioned that their spouse criticizes more than before.** **(Mir Mohammad Sadeghi, Mahdi, pre-marriage education, Tehran, the country's welfare organization, cultural and prevention deputy)** **Why is it important to love your wife?** **Humans naturally need to experience love and marriage is usually the longest romantic relationship for any person.... Without feeling love and affection, a person may not have enough motivation to do their daily tasks and sometimes it causes depression and other mental illnesses... Expressing love can warm the heart of the family and establish strong connections between members.** **One of the biggest misconceptions in married life is that you should not show affection, the other person should not know that you love him because then he will take advantage of it!** **The most important rules of emotional relationship** - **Don't be too independent or too dependent in a romantic relationship.** Appreciate the good and valuable work of your wife.. - **Before you expect attention and respect from your spouse, respect yourself and value yourself.** - **Don't stray from your gender roles... (have feminine or masculine behaviors)** - **Use diversity in all aspects of your life together.** - **Let your wife be the priority in your life.** - **Don't humiliate your wife when she is angry.** **Solutions to create love** 1.... **Instead of seeing your wife's weaknesses, remind her of her positive points.** 2.... **Don't have unreasonable expectations from your spouse because this will decrease the love between couples.** 3.... **Take time for your wife to have a good life and feel responsible for her.** 4... **Don't compare your wife with another woman or man.** 5.... **By participating in family counseling and training sessions, increase your knowledge and skills in the field of married life and creating a romantic relationship.** 6.... **Respect the time and personal space of the other party.** 7.... **Sometimes give a gift to your wife without occasion.** 8.... ** Sometimes do housework together.** 9.... **Organize events in a special way.** 10.... **Ask for his opinion in important decisions.** 11.... **When you have a difference of opinion, try to find the best solution together instead of blaming.** 12 .... **Appreciate your wife's good behavior and encourage her to repeat the appropriate behavior.** 13 .... ** Expression of love; Kind words can warm the heart of the family.** 14.... **Consult each other to have better free time.** 15.... **Prioritize honesty and trust in your relationship.** 16... **Take care of him when he is sick.** 17... **Use the smallest things to show your affection, such as: saying romantic sentences, washing dishes together, watching TV, gifts and small surprises...** 18.... **Empathy, cooperation, consensus and consultation in various affairs and issues with each other.** 19.... **If you have time, talk about different issues with your wife.** 20 .... **Teaching communication skills such as active listening, respecting each other's opinion and...** 21.... **Don't underestimate physical contact.** 22.... **Review your good double memories.** 23.... **Make your wife feel safe.** 24 .... **Consider your wife as the closest person in your life and consider her as your supporter and supporter.** 25... ** Beside your wife, keep all your thoughts and mentions occupied with her, not the work and virtual space.** **Summary** **Joint life and love and affection need constant maintenance.... If you feel that the distance between you and your spouse has increased abnormally, you should look for ways to reduce this distance.... First try to find the reason for the decrease in interest and then look for suitable solutions to reach the initial passion.... Sometimes your spouse needs more attention and affection than your child, so try to prevent the decrease in affection with mutual education.. **To improve your emotional and marital relations You can get help from expert psychologists in this field... Pirij Clinic can help you in this matter by considering couple therapy sessions and individual counseling sessions.**

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