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What is the best way to deal with stubborn children? Tip
3 months ago
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Dr. Hossein Bayat
ShirazPhD in health psychology
**Is stubbornness normal in children?**
Stubbornness in children is completely normal and different levels of stubbornness can be observed in each child according to his personality and circumstances.... Parents' behavior with this stubbornness is very effective in increasing and not controlling it.... Children are naturally curious and constantly check their surroundings, test the boundaries and get to know the world around them.. Skills... When children insist on doing things, parents should pay attention to this point... that in dealing with stubbornness Children, they need to set boundaries...so the next time you are faced with your child's stubbornness about dressing, eating or brushing their teeth...keep calm and remember that your child's stubbornness is a natural and necessary part of their development...this is an opportunity to teach valuable life skills such as compromise, communication and conflict resolution...by accepting their stubbornness, you are helping your child become a confident, capable and independent person..when a child have a request or their parents force them to do something against their will that causes stubbornness.. arguing, nagging, arguing and repeated requests.... sometimes the reason for children's stubbornness is that parents do not have a fixed attitude towards their stubbornness.... for example, once they do not show any reaction to stubbornness and another time they ask them to behave according to their wishes.... if we always have a consistent approach to children, stubbornness They become less...
How to teach parents is also very effective.. If parents give too many orders, children get bored and refuse to follow orders.... Sometimes, children do not follow orders because no one has taught them how to do it.... For example, a child has not learned how to use a spoon and fork, but parents expect him to have proper eating etiquette.
- They feel a strong need for attention and to be heard.... - They have a strong desire to be independent.... - They are more cheerful than their peers.... - They seem conscientious in doing what they like.... - Behave like a boss.... - Do things at their own pace.... - Stubborn children often do not achieve their goals. - Stubborn children will not stop working to achieve their best goals. Get it.. Rorschach test
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**How should you behave when children are stubborn?**
- If the child does not do what you want within five minutes, use the reasons appropriate to the situation... If the child still does not follow your command and at the same time is busy with a certain activity such as watching TV or playing, interrupt his activity (turn off the TV or take away the toy) and explain to the child, for example, why you did not do this... all the reason is that the TV will be off for ten minutes It was... five to ten minutes is enough to eliminate an activity (not watching TV)... avoid complaining, protesting and arguing with the child...
- Then in the next step, return the child to the previous activity.... If the desired time to correct the child's behavior is over, allow the activity again or give the child the toy... the toy, repeat your logical reasons and give him time Give more (eg the rest of the day) or use the "silence or rejection method" if necessary... ### **Be calm and patient**
When dealing with a stubborn child, it is very important to keep your cool....don't get angry or frustrated as this can escalate the situation....instead, speak calmly and clearly and explain why his behavior is not acceptable....remember that your child is still learning and may not understand the consequences of his actions....
>>>>Your lucky children are heard
Many times children don't like to be ordered... For example, if you order your stubborn four-year-old to be in his bed at 9:00 PM, it's no wonder he shouts (no) to you.. Go to sleep... Honey, which story are you reading?
If you expect your child to respect you and you, you must respect him... Remember that you cannot force your child to listen..
**Identify your child's assertiveness or stubbornness**
, it should not be interpreted as the stubbornness of a stubborn child, because stubbornness means insistence that is caused by ignorance and immaturity... A stubborn child is not willing to make the slightest change in his behavior and his goal is only to play the opposite instrument and finally put his own words in the chair... Children may show a series of inappropriate behaviors until they grow up and reach adulthood. which, if treated correctly, leads to the growth and education of a healthy child.
