Do the kindness test to find out that all the things that have been said sometimes happen to you and have examples in your case, or that they are a part of your personality. This questionnaire consists of 24 items. The questions of each of them determine the degree of your tendency to seek affection and please people and the reason for it. Read each question and see how it applies to you. And answer it by writing the letter d (true) and n (false). Do not spend too much time on each question. It does not need to be analyzed. Your quick judgment based on how much each question or statement applies to you is enough.

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⁉️Questions:

1. It is important for me that everyone loves me. 2. I believe that nothing good can come from conflict and enmity. 3. The needs of others always come before my needs.

4. I try to keep myself away from any conflicts and differences.

5. In order to be noticed, I work too hard and make sacrifices for others.

6. I always need the approval of others.

7. I easily acknowledge the negative feelings of others, but I cannot express my own negative feelings towards others.

8. I think that if they need me because of everything I do for others, I will never be left alone. 9. I can't stop trying to please others.

10. I try very hard so that there is no difference between me and my family members, friends or colleagues.

11. Before doing anything for myself, I try to serve others.

12. I almost never face others because I am afraid that they will get angry with me.

13. If I don't consider the needs of others before my own, I will become a selfish person and in this case, others will never love me.

14. I get upset at the thought of having a disagreement with others.

15. Even if my criticism is constructive, I don't criticize anyone because I don't want anyone to be angry with me.

16. Even if it goes against my feelings, I have to please others.

17. In order to gain the love and affection of others, I have to constantly show myself. 18. I believe that good people buy the approval, love and friendship of others for themselves.

19. I should never put other people's demands on me.

20. Sometimes I feel that I would like to buy the affection of others by serving them.

21. If I speak against others or do something to buy their anger for myself, I will be upset and anxious.

22. I rarely delegate tasks and work to others.

23. I feel guilty when I answer "no" to other people's requests. 24. If I don't serve others continuously, I feel bad.