Parents have the main influence on themselves Children and their past can influence their relationship with their children....the child needs affection, approval, caressing, your presence, love with limits, your understanding, comforting experience and lots of attention and time, etc... But what is more problematic than any of these issues is the way they treated us as babies or children, issues that can cause problems, things like: lack of self-confidence, things that make us uncomfortable, our pessimism to follow Yes..emotions, when these issues come up with our children, they can be hurtful....spend time thinking about how you felt when you were your child's age and it will help you feel more empathetic with your children when they behave in ways that push them away..want to be with them, as well as the love, caress, kindness and respect we show them, respect their feelings, Their personality, opinions and understanding and interpretation of their world... You and everyone who lives with you shape your children's environment. A large part of how your children feel about themselves and how they communicate with others is formed in relation to you and those around you. Children see themselves as a circle, the circle of attachment that binds the parents together.. Separation of parents has destructive effects on children.. If the child calls the parents bad people, this issue is often internalized in the child and that is why he considers himself a bad child. Also, the child may have tension to be loyal to both of them.. It goes well with them... If this issue is managed well, the child becomes less depressed and aggressive....Admitting and understanding your own feelings and accepting the other person's feelings is usually the best way to deal with the inevitable differences that arise in families....Everyone benefits from being heard, understood and empathized....Make this a priority in your family... Nothing in this world gives us as much parenting It does not teach that people feel before they think and their reaction to children's feelings is very important because this is a necessary and basic human need.. A baby is a pure emotion and sometimes we caress him for a long time before they need it and with this kind of love parents build the foundations of children's emotional health... It is very important to recognize, take seriously and confirm and accept your child's feelings. express Give him anger.. We react differently to our children because of our childhood experiences depending on the type of relationship we ourselves have with each emotion growing up.. Unintentionally experiencing it weakens their ability to focus on things.. One of the reasons some parents do this is because they see the situation from their perspective and not from their child's perspective. Embrace the child and express his feelings in words or pictures.. Foundation

Chapter Five: Conditions for mental health