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Why and how does the betrayal of women happen?

Before looking at the symptoms, we should know that infidelity in women often has a different nature than in men. Men may cheat more for sexual reasons, but women's cheating usually has deeper emotional roots.

Women are often drawn to extramarital affairs when they feel alone, neglected, or lacking emotional intimacy. For this reason, the sign of infidelity is usually associated with more intense emotional and behavioral changes. A woman who cheats has usually removed her heart and mind from the relationship before her body. Understanding this will help you interpret symptoms not just as suspicious behavior, but as signs of a deep emotional disconnect.

5 signs of infidelity between husband and wife that you should not ignore

Here we discuss 5 important behavioral changes that can indicate the presence of a third person in the relationship. Of course, remember that none of these are definitive documents of infidelity, but the simultaneous existence of several cases requires serious consideration.

1. Sudden emotional distance and coldness for no reason

One of the first and most important signs of wife cheating on her husband is creating an emotional invisible wall. If your spouse, who used to be eager to talk, has now become silent, refuses to share the details of his day, and is no longer interested in hearing what you have to say, you should be concerned.

• Noticeable change: He no longer talks to you about his dreams, fears, or feelings.
• Indifference: Not fighting is not always a good sign. If he's completely indifferent to things that used to bother him, then maybe he doesn't care about you anymore.

2. Dramatic changes in daily schedule and habits

Does your spouse, who always came home at a certain time, now constantly late business meetings or new friendships has? Sudden and unexplained changes in the routine of life is a sign of infidelity.

• He may spend a lot of time away from home without convincing explanations.
• He answers his phone calls in the other room or quickly turns off the screen when he sees you.

3. Extreme attention to appearance and change of dressing style

Taking care of yourself is a positive thing, but a sudden and radical change in appearance can be significant. If your partner has suddenly started losing a lot of weight, has completely changed his clothing style (for example, wearing more provocative clothes than he used to wear), and spends hours in front of the mirror, he may be trying to attract someone new. These physical changes are often a reflection of the excitement of a new relationship.

4. Excessive sensitivity to privacy (mobile and virtual space)

In today's world, infidelities often start through smartphones. If your wife has suddenly changed the password of her phone, always clings to her phone (even in the bathroom and toilet) and gets stressed when you approach her phone, this is a serious alarm and a sign of infidelity. Some of these other behaviors include:

• Persistent clearing of call and message history.
• Using secret messaging applications or having anonymous accounts on social networks.

5. Change in the quality of sex

Sexual changes in female infidelity can be ambiguous and confusing.

• First mode (more common): Decreased libido and avoidance of intimacy. He may give excuses such as tiredness, headache or stress, because he feels guilty or needs are met elsewhere.
• Second mode (weird but real): Sudden increase in sexual desire or requests for new positions and behaviors that have never happened before. This could be due to learning in a new relationship or an attempt to cover up guilt.

Normal behavior against suspicious behavior of a woman's betrayal in a relationship

The line between a simple behavior change and betrayal is difficult to draw. This table will help you better understand the differences:

What is the next step? Facing reality

If you see several of the above symptoms in your spouse, do not panic and do not take impulsive actions. Direct accusations without evidence will only make him put on the defensive and increase his cover-up.

1. Observe, not spy: Try to monitor his behavior more closely but don't invade his privacy in a pathological way.
2. Talk: Express your concerns in a calm and non-slandering environment. For example, say: "I feel like we've been apart for a while, is there a specific reason?"
3. Get professional help: If your suspicion is strong but you don't know how to deal with it, it is essential to see a counselor.

Last word

Facing the possibility of a wife's betrayal is a tough test for every man. Seeing a sign of wife's infidelity can create a sense of anger, disbelief and deep sadness. But remember that you are not alone in this path and it is your right to make an informed decision. Our expert team consists of experienced counselors who are specifically trained to manage divorce crises and provide professional remote services. The telephone divorce counseling service at Roshan Road is designed with a focus on full privacy, quick access and providing practical solutions so that you are not alone in one of the most difficult turns of life.

Instead of drowning in negative thoughts, try to regain control of your life by being realistic and getting help from experts. Whether you decide to forgive and repair the relationship or decide to break up, the first priority should be to preserve your mental health and self-esteem.

FAQ

1. Is cooling of sex always a sign of infidelity?

No, not at all. Decreased libido in women can have many reasons, including hormonal changes, extreme stress, depression, drug side effects or dissatisfaction with the emotional aspects of a relationship. It should not be considered the only reason and other aspects should also be examined.

2. If my wife constantly accuses me of cheating, is she cheating herself?

This behavior is called projection in psychology. Sometimes, in order to reduce the burden of his guilt or divert his wife's mind, the unfaithful person accuses her of doing something that he himself is doing. If your spouse becomes suspicious for no reason, this can be a warning sign.

3. What is the best reaction after being sure of betrayal?

The worst reaction is to make a decision in the heat of anger. Violence, public exposure or retaliation will only make the situation worse. The best thing to do is to stay away from the stressful environment, maintain your mental security and be sure to consult a psychologist or legal advisor so that you can decide wisely and logically whether to continue or end the relationship.