Successful marriage, part two: In order to know "**how to have a successful marriage?**" it might be better to first know what marriage is....marriage means signing a contract in an official form, during which both parties must commit to each other....this commitment must be maintained until the end of life. You may imagine that starting a life with love and affection requires constant passion and happiness and will eventually lead to a successful marriage, but it is definitely not the case because couples may face many challenges along the way, and how they deal with these problems, how they deal with each other, and other factors are important. In order to have a successful marriage, both parties should learn the basic principles of communication, how to manage problems and other matters related to joint life, and then take action in this field, and certainly referring to a **pre-marriage counselor** can be very helpful.

A common life platform Apparently, the balance between the positive and negative aspects of life is a key dynamic factor in life, what can be called the emotional substrate of shared life, where emotional interactions occur....where the relationship between the various interactions is balanced, love flourishes, and where this balance deviates too much from moderation, love fades and fades as an endangered and deprived species....in healthy life....this harmonious function. Adjusts between positive and negative and emotional base preserves. For example, when spouses are insulted in stable life, they correct it with a lot of positive things.. Of course, it is not true at the same time, but they soon replace it with a positive behavior. **(John Guttman, Nan Silver, Why do marriages succeed and why do they fail?, Vida Lotfi, Sabrin)** Signs of a successful marriage from the perspective of couple therapists and premarital psychologists 1... Each of the parties must be satisfied with the way the other party speaks. 2... Neither party should control the other party excessively. 3.... When a problem arises, everyone expresses their opinion and shares their ideas properly with each other. 4.... Share your thoughts on how you spend your free time. 5... couples can accept each other's individual differences and deal with them practically. 6... Each couple should be satisfied with the amount and manner of expressing each other's love. 7... Family, friends and other non-experts of the couple should not interfere in relationships and problems. 8.... In order to have a successful marriage, don't agree to any marriage!.. As we all know that marriage is not the only goal of a girl's and boy's life, we must know that it is not the only way to achieve happiness and progress... Although marriage is an important way to reach the destination, but it is not the only way... It is understanding and does not see a way back for itself... A successful marriage that is done with enough understanding can facilitate the path of growth, otherwise this marriage itself is an obstacle on the way to evolution and happiness.... People who just want to get married They easily deal with any issue that is raised before marriage and accept any request immediately and are even willing to change themselves according to their spouse's wishes, but after marriage, time passes slowly. It will create a good feeling and increase self-confidence in your wife.. Established in East Tehran.... • Always take responsibility... Realize that you cannot expect this from others.... • Keep reminding yourself that no human being is perfect and everyone has positive and negative qualities, so stop yourself from comparing your wife with others.... • Practice focusing on the positive qualities of your wife... All marriages have conflicts. Problems.**

**A successful marriage is one in which couples are able to manage conflicts.**

**According to research, people who marry their best friend reduce the risk of divorce by 70%.**

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