Dos and don'ts of dating before marriage

Dating period before marriage The period of getting to know a girl and a boy is one of the most vital stages before marriage.. because in order to have a reliable decision in this field, complete evaluations must be done.... Also, the girl and the boy must get to know each other's personality traits completely.... Insufficient knowledge or lack of time to get to know each other before marriage can lead to a wrong decision and the destruction of the life together... To have or not?.. In the following, we have brought all the points that you should pay attention to in dating before marriage....

Dating before marriage Dating is the process of exchanging information and emotions between two people of the opposite sex to make a decision about marriage. Traditionally in our society, dating before marriage is done through courtship, the form of which is different in different parts of Iran. Usually, the first motivating factor for getting to know a person is their attractiveness. There are two old theories about dating before marriage. Well, both parties have a greater desire to know each other... ### Heterogeneous spouse theory The mate mismatch theory states that we are more attracted to people who complete us.. For example, a shy person likes a bold person or a sociable and extroverted person finds a reclusive and studious person attractive.. Similarity and compatibility are more focused on personality, interests, beliefs and values.. Advantages of dating before marriage 1...During the pre-marriage dating process, we get to know exactly what we like and dislike.... This pre-marriage dating actually helps us to know better what kind of personality we are looking for and what qualities we are looking for in our life partner.... 2... Pre-marriage dating helps us learn communication skills.... because it is an opportunity to experience communication with different people... 4....boy and girl If they have the opportunity to get to know each other before marriage, they can discover each other's interests in a safe environment... 5.... This course allows people to come to an understanding about various issues such as financial issues, planning for the future, education, type of relationships, etc... 6... Dating before marriage is a period for couples to evaluate each other's performance in different situations. 1... During dating before marriage, usually both people try to show only their positive points and try to cover their weaknesses... 2... If we are involved in serious dating, we may get away from our daily activities to some extent, because our attention is more focused on that person.... We may distance ourselves from other life issues such as studies, friends, and our family.... 3... Dating without respecting the possible restrictions of marriage, not only negative effects on the possibility of marriage It has..

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Mistakes in dating before marriage ### You don't ask enough questions Many of us don't ask enough questions to get to know us in order to start a serious relationship... such as not wanting to discover the other person's negative traits, fearing that the other person will ask us the same questions, not knowing what questions to ask, etc... ### Believing in changing the other person In most cultures, there is a misconception that one can change one's spouse by having love.. This type of thinking is very wrong!.. Someone who has grown up with his own personality traits for years, which are rooted in many factors such as genetics and environment, cannot change easily... ### Compromise with any situation One of the biggest mistakes in a relationship before marriage is that we quickly change our values and behaviors to adapt to the other party's conditions and show him that we agree with each other. Today, having the right financial conditions is one of the most important conditions to have a successful marriage, but it is not the only factor of happiness.. Ignoring some of the signs that indicate the existence of a problem can jeopardize the future of the relationship. Sometimes we see signs of a problem but unconsciously try to ignore it... Questions you should ask each other when dating... Dating with judges before marriage is the best time to get to know each other... Knowing what questions to ask is very important... Because it has a great impact on your decision and your future... Below are some of the best questions that will help you choose the right partner for your future.... - What is your purpose in marriage?.. - How well do you know yourself?. - What behavior do you show when facing problems? - Are you physically and mentally healthy? - How do you define betrayal? Are you an introvert or an extrovert?.. - In your opinion, what is the most important duty of a wife in a joint life? - Do you prefer to rest or go on vacation? - How do you express your objection in cases that you disagree with? - How are your social relationships? - What is your best feature? - What is your biggest weakness? - Are you interested in having a child? - Do you have a special goal in your life together? - What is your most important priority in life right now? - How do you define love and affection? - Do you express your feelings? - What are you interested in? Premarital counseling sessions One of the stages of getting to know each other, or rather, the vital part of getting to know each other, is the pre-marriage counseling sessions.. In these sessions, the relevant counselor performs tests and determines the compatibility and success of your marriage to a large extent during several interview sessions. In this field, you can get help from Pirouz Clinic, which consists of a team of professional experts.... **Book a consultation time**

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