Teaching secrecy to children like teaching any other moral skill requires a special art, parents can teach their children more with behavior than with words.. In general, teaching secrecy like other behaviors we teach children should be indirect.. Teaching secrecy to children is done by parents in the first stage and since children model their parents and follow their behavior.. If parents are secretive, the child will also learn from them. Children** Teaching privacy to children can be a complicated issue.. because there is a fine line between important issues that must be said and otherwise it can harm the child's body and spirit, and there are things that should not be said... but some abusive people may use this positive characteristic in children and ask them to hide after causing physical harm to the child.... This issue can have many consequences for the child.. Partying or arguing between parents is not the right thing.... Teaching them to children** When it comes to teaching kids secrets, it's important to differentiate between different types of secrets and help kids understand when it's appropriate to keep a secret and when it's important to share information with a trusted adult.... Here are the three types of secrets and how to teach them about them. share with a trusted adult if they have any concerns or questions about the surprise... ### **Private Secrets** These secrets include secrets that need to be kept for privacy.. These secrets may include sensitive information that should not be shared with others.. such as personal feelings, medical conditions, or issues between parents.. It is important to teach children that safe secrets are okay if they involve maintaining personal safety, privacy, or respecting boundaries.. but the child must feel trusted by the parent and talk to the parent if they are upset or afraid.... ### Harmful and troublesome secrets Harmful secrets are secrets that involve dangerous, inappropriate, or harmful behaviors.. These secrets may involve situations where someone is hurt or in danger.. While privacy and personal boundaries are important to children, secrecy means hiding important information, concealing important experiences, or engaging in harmful behaviors can be harmful to children's safe role development. and social... ### **Parents are the best role model in teaching children about secrecy Direct language teaching or command and prohibition of moral principles to children is not only ineffective, but it may be destructive and the child will be stubborn in front of it, the teaching of secrecy is also not separate from this, and for this purpose, in the first stage, parents must be secretive and show their secrecy to the child as a principle and institutionalize it in the family.. Observing these things is indirect teaching of secrecy.... Parents are the model of secrecy for the child, so they should not reveal the secret of others in front of the child... The first principle in education Secrecy is to keep the child's secret and the second principle is not to reveal others' secrets... teach the child the game to understand the concept of secrecy... for example, instead of saying "I don't love you" or "I'm not your mom" and... when the child is not secretive, encourage him if he is not secretive... or punishment... marriage counseling Rorschach test Treatment of attention deficit hyperactivity disorder ### **Encouraging open communication and building trust** In teaching children about confidentiality, it is important to create a supportive environment where children feel comfortable talking about their thoughts, feelings, and experiences.. Encourage them to ask questions, seek clarification, and express any concerns about confidentiality.... Children's connections with parents and safe adults increase their confidence and create opportunities to talk about problems.. Group... Parents and educators can teach children the concept of confidentiality best through play. And the book... Reading age-appropriate books or stories that deal with the concept of secrets can help children learn the importance of honesty, trust, and communication. Teaching privacy to children by parents can be done indirectly by using games; which can have the greatest impact on the child. Secrecy is a necessary and sensitive skill in a child; which should be brought up with great sensitivity... If as a parent you feel that you have a problem in discussing this issue and teaching your child about secrecy, you can visit Bayat's psychology and neurofeedback center and receive the necessary help and guidance from the center's experienced counselors in the field of teaching your child. status?** In teaching confidentiality to children, you should pay attention to the fact that, due to confidentiality, the child should not refrain from telling issues that can trouble his soul and body, and only if it is true, it should be confidential. Amazing secrets are safe secrets; which is told for fun...private secrets such as personal feelings, medical conditions or issues between parents do not need to be told...harmful and troublesome secrets are secrets that are not shared with parents; It can be associated with mental and physical problems in the child...