The role of the father in raising a child and the child's mental health Due to the special importance of the mother's role, for a long time the focus of research on the influence of parents on children's development has been mainly on mothers. However, psychologists have repeatedly emphasized the key and undeniable role of fathers in the upbringing and development of children. The role of the father in raising a child is beyond the traditional idea and can have a significant impact on the emotional, social and personality development of children. Fathers who play a role with a positive outlook, active presence and creating an atmosphere full of security and love, have a significant impact on raising balanced people with high self-confidence and successful social relationships. But what exactly is the role of a father in raising a child? What influence do fathers have on different aspects of their children's lives, and in what areas do children follow their father's example? In this article from the Pirouzi Psychology Clinic website, we intend to answer these questions and examine various aspects of the father's role in raising children.

The amazing role of the father in the development of children's emotional intelligence Research shows that fathers can play an even more effective role than mothers in strengthening and nurturing children's emotional intelligence. This is for two major reasons: First, children often tend to imitate their father, who is considered their hero. Second, according to research, everyday and predictable events attract less attention, while unexpected events remain in the mind more. The role of a father in raising a child is very important in this sense, because fathers can help their children develop emotional intelligence with positive behaviors, healthy emotions, and effective interactions. In all cultures, the role of a mother is tied to emotions, compassion, sacrifice and unconditional love. For this reason, children often do not learn these behaviors from their mothers or do not pay special attention to them; Because they consider it a natural part of a mother's role. But when such behaviors are seen by the father, the children's attention is drawn in a special way and these behaviors have a deeper effect on them. We suggest all fathers to take advantage of this unique ability of theirs and improve their children's emotional intelligence in the best possible way with purposeful behaviors. **How a father deals with a child's mistake** The difference between correct and incorrect understanding of life as a father has a great impact on the upbringing of children. Correct understanding of children's lives is a very sensitive and ongoing issue that can have a profound effect on the relationship between parents and children. The role of the father in raising children is also important in this context, because fathers not only give them a correct understanding of life, but also prevent the formation of negative behaviors by the correct way of dealing with their children's mistakes. When parents, instead of raising children and playing their fundamental role in their children's lives, only focus on their own expectations, they unintentionally divert the path of education and the educational process stops at that moment. Making mistakes is a part of human nature, but the important thing is that as a father, we should have an attitude based on acceptance and correction and not blame our children for their mistakes. Children's mistakes should not be seen as a disaster. Many parents ignore these mistakes or adopt punitive attitudes instead of education. This approach, in addition to violating educational principles, can lead to serious psychological and behavioral harm. The usual advice is to use children's mistakes as opportunities for learning. By explaining precisely and logically why the mistake is made and showing its consequences, it is possible to help strengthen the relationship and develop the children's personality. **Prevention of psychological problems with father's supportive role** The supportive role and active presence of the father in the child's life is one of the key factors in preventing mental problems. Children easily cope with the challenges and pressures of everyday life when they feel that they have a strong support and support in their lives. The father's role in raising a child becomes more prominent when the child is in a challenging situation and needs support and guidance. Fathers who dedicate enough time to interact with their children and respond to their emotional and psychological needs in different situations have a direct effect on reducing stress and anxiety in children. This supportive presence helps the child to feel that he is not alone in facing the problems of life and can easily communicate with others. Also, the presence of a father who provides reasonable and appropriate guidance along with support prevents the formation of risky behaviors such as addiction, aggression or social isolation. Studies have shown that children with accompanying and supportive fathers are more cheerful, have higher self-confidence and are less prone to disorders such as depression or anxiety. For this reason, the active participation of the father in the child's life is not only a family duty, but also an effective tool for improving the mental and emotional health of the child. **The role of the father in shaping the child's personality** Fathers play an irreplaceable role in shaping the character and behavior of their children. Their active presence and emotional support can help the child feel safe and confident. **Role of father in raising a child** means continuous presence, emotional support and transmission of moral and behavioral values. Fathers who are constantly with their children not only become good role models, but also teach their children the ability to solve problems, make correct decisions, and face challenges. By transferring values ​​and moral principles, they prepare the child to enter the society and teach him how to establish healthy social relationships. Fathers are also influential in cultivating qualities such as perseverance, responsibility and independence. This support and guidance during childhood and adolescence can lead to the emotional, social and psychological growth and prosperity of the child. **Recommendations for creating a bond for fathers** Even before your baby is born, let the hospital staff know, especially the pediatrician and the charge nurse, that you would like to spend time with your baby and be alone with him or her as soon as possible after birth. Suggest them to postpone the usual method of vitamin k injection and use of eye ointment until one hour after birth so that you can enjoy bonding with your baby in the first hour after birth. This special time should not be spent on unimportant medical procedures that can be postponed for some time. Immediately after the birth of the baby (after the baby is cleaned) he should be placed directly on the mother's chest and all three of you can enjoy these moments together and celebrate the birth of your family. The father's role in raising a child starts from the very first moments after birth. Establishing the initial bond with the baby after birth has a profound effect on the formation of subsequent relationships between father and child, and this opportunity should not be missed. During this early bonding, many babies are in a unique state of calm awareness. Their eyes are completely open and they react to the environment. They want to know immediately who they belong to. It is normal that after ten to twenty minutes, the child falls into a deep sleep. This state of calm awareness is the first time of the baby's receptiveness, and this time of creating the initial bond immediately after birth should not be missed, unless medical issues and problems prevent doing this. (Caesar, William, the father's role in child care and education, Sharafuddin Sharfi, 20th edition, Sabrin) **last word** The role of a father in raising a child is much more than traditional ideas. With their active and conscious presence, fathers can have a profound effect on their children's emotional intelligence, especially when they demonstrate empathic and supportive behaviors. Establishing the initial bond with the baby after birth, how to deal with children's mistakes, and supporting them in facing life's challenges, are all among the things that help the development and formation of a healthy child's personality**.** Fathers not only act as role models, but also provide the ground for children's all-round development by imparting values, teaching problem-solving skills, and creating an atmosphere full of security and love. The father's role in raising a child also helps to reduce stress and anxiety and prevent mental problems such as depression and risky behaviors. Therefore, the father's presence in the child's life is not only a family duty, but also a necessity for promoting mental health and raising a healthy and successful generation. To benefit from more guidance in this field, Piriz Clinic is ready to help you in this way by holding parenting sessions.

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