**starting sex after delivery** is important....you need time for yourself, don't let loving your baby interfere with your personal affairs....even if there are many guests from far away, you shouldn't feel guilty for wanting to fulfill your needs....if you like you can go for a walk, watch your favorite show or take time to relax..before you lose control due to exhaustion....it's better to make a schedule for family visits....if your family or friends They get upset when you tell them you don't have time for the party, it's better not to change your mind because of their feelings.... Thank them and ask them to come see you some other time.... Starting sex after delivery The first time a woman can have sex is the first six weeks after giving birth and only with the permission of the doctor.... You may have a strong desire for sex, but remember that sex can jeopardize the healing process of the genitals.... In addition to the fact that women's physical recovery takes time, most women do not have any major sexual feelings for a while, but this lack of sleep also causes insomnia.... Increase this issue. Remember that his physical reluctance has nothing to do with his feelings for you....it is not personal reluctance, it is due to his physical condition....in some women, their libido returns when the doctor deems sex safe, but for some it takes about six to twelve months....some men may also experience a decrease in libido due to the new role, when your partner completes as a libya..until your relationship is normal, go back before that Pregnancy....even when your partner's libido returns, you may not be able to have sex like before pregnancy....it is better to let things go slowly....although the presence of the baby may not give you enough time in between....you should also consider contraceptive methods....many people believe that breastfeeding women cannot get pregnant.... Although breastfeeding often delays ovulation, some women ovulate while breastfeeding...don't...so for couples who have returned to their normal sex life, it is recommended to use condoms.