The correct way to raise a child
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Dr. Bahman Pouragadham
TehranSurgeon - dentist
Children's education
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Education of children has always been one of the biggest concerns of most parents.... Some parents like to make up for what they did not get in childhood.... Sometimes this concern is so much that it becomes obsessive and people use strict methods to raise their children.... It does not comply with international standards for raising children.
15 methods of raising children
### Show your love to your wife in front of your child
Hug your spouse and call each other with loving words.... Your marriage is the only model for the child to understand what a deep emotional relationship should be... ### Observe moderation and moderation
If you are strict with your children, they will hide things from you....A kind parent treats them in such a way that their child does not think about concealment and lying at all....because he knows that by telling about his events and decisions, he will not be blamed, nor compared, nor blamed....don't be too strict...that they do not go beyond the level of moderation in raising a child.
### Teach your child the trick of courage
Tell your child to always pay attention to the color of other people's eyes...directing the child's attention to other people's eyes makes eye contact with them....this helps the hesitant child to appear more confident and helps any child to be more assertive and less afraid to challenge others.
### Admit it when you're wrong
This method is the best way to show the child how and when to apologize.
#### Keep your word
If you have told the child that he has no right to eat cookies or lollipops before dinner or lunch, you should never let him do it even if he cries a lot and insists.. Children pay more attention to what you do than what you tell them....most of what they learn is from imitating the actions of their elders....so in addition to verbal training, do what you want them to do in front of them....if your child misbehaves with other children in kindergarten, give one of those children a gentle hug....that way, the child will also find it difficult for you to hug his teeth..together and the toothbrush His teeth at the same time so that it is exciting for him.
#### Praise him for his good behavior
Sometimes a child's bad behavior is because they don't know how to communicate with others and they want to get your attention in any way.. That's why it's very important to praise and encourage your child when he does something good... This way you teach him that good behavior gets your attention...
Let your child choose an activity to do together for 10-15 minutes each day... There is no better way to show your love to them.
##### Pay attention to the child's interests
In various aspects of life, such as filling the child's free time, many parents choose options that they were eager to choose in the past, instead of paying attention to the child's interests... while children may have unique interests and tastes that are very different from yours.... Ignoring these interests can make them less satisfied with life in the future and miss the opportunity to discover their talents.
##### Play with the baby
It doesn't matter whether it's children's mental games or physical games....let them choose the type of game....don't obsess about the rules, go with the flow and have fun, that's what play is all about.
##### Use more encouragement than punishment to raise your child
Encouragements play a much bigger and more important role than punishment.... because in punishment, the child is prohibited from doing a bad behavior, but he does not learn his proper alternative properly..
##### Don't try to fix everything
Give your child the opportunity to find solutions individually... When you acknowledge your child's small failure with love and without immediately stepping in to save him, you teach him to be stubborn and self-reliant.
###### Do not rush the child to grow up
Some parents want to realize all their lost opportunities and dreams through their children.... This makes them care less about their child's childhood and constantly think about his growth and reaching predetermined goals.... Remember that childhood is one of the most important periods in the life of every human being, which if not spent properly can affect the child's future.... for different successes... let him follow his own life path and discover his interests. slow.
###### Know the cause of your child's misbehavior
If some children are affected by an event or incident, they react to it by doing incorrect and unjustifiable behaviors.
###### Let the child also experience failure
Some parents want to provide everything for their child for reasons such as having a difficult childhood... so to speak, they don't let a thorn sink into their child's foot... This is despite the fact that, according to psychologists, experiencing failure is one of the emotional needs of humans... People who do not experience any failure or hardship in childhood, and all the work of parents is not always ready for the formation of a weak character according to their face... hardships and hardships... this issue can ultimately lead to feeling helpless. becomes internalized and causes a lot of problems for a person in adulthood.... As a result, sometimes let the child take responsibility for his work and taste the taste of failure and difficulty according to his age.
Bahman Hossein Pouragadham
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