Casual friendships after marriage

Normal friendships after marriage One of the questions that couples, especially young couples face at the beginning of life, is about "**teacher friendships after marriage**". whether or not we can still be in touch with our previous friends (same-sex and opposite-sex) after marriage, what should be the boundaries of relationships **, whether these types of friendships are true or not and... are among the challenging questions that people who enter into a committed relationship or official marriage face. First of all, we should know that the traditional thinking that prevailed in the past has lost its color and new ways of life have taken its place. Of course, the type of thinking of each person depends entirely on his own opinion, we must judge this matter with a healthy mind and away from any prejudice. If thinking about "normal friendships after marriage" becomes too much and causes disruption and discord in relationships, we suggest that you refer to ** specialist couple therapist**.

**Competitors of common life | friendship before marriage** When two people get married, the spouse's friends, remaining connections, and the spouse's set of siblings may cause fear and jealousy... Here an important question arises, "What should normal friendships look like after marriage?" Past relationships will probably change **after marriage** ... Newlyweds and grooms often have trouble going out with old friends or connecting with them.

Maintaining old friendships requires careful communication and paying attention to the spouse's needs.

After marriage, spouses get tired of spending all their time together.

On the other hand, if one of them feels rejected due to new problems or being ignored.

The basic fact in this case is that **fear**.... We are afraid of not being noticed and old friendships are more important than marital relations.

Spouses should **discuss honestly about all these things between family relations and their family relations** and clearly balance between family relations and friends.. relations...

He should think of a plan and at this stage counseling is very important

**The root of friendship with the opposite sex after marriage**

In this section, we consider three general possibilities as the reason for the tendency to be friends with the opposite sex after marriage: 1... A person without knowing enough and without having the slightest interest in the other party hastily decides to get married, but after a short period of time, he realizes his mistake and regrets his choice, and in the same way, he plans to enter into a relationship with a person who is ideal for him. 2... The person does not have problem-solving skills, if the smallest marital problems arise, he gets confused and cannot bear the problems. 3.... In the last case, we are faced with a person without the slightest sense of loyalty, who seeks diversity and is unable to continue a relationship based on commitment. (All these people should be under the supervision of an expert consultant to have a sense of peace and a better life.) The consequences of friendship with the opposite sex after marriage - Feeling of despair towards life - Inability to bear hardships with spouse - Feeling guilty permanently - Dispersion of family members - emotional distance of family members towards each other - becoming pessimistic towards one's wife and...

**Which group of friends should we not communicate with after marriage?**

### Friends of the opposite sex: One of the common friends after marriage are people of the opposite sex... People who start a committed relationship or get married should not continue with friends of the opposite sex after marriage. People who consider cheating as a normal thing in their life and give strange and irrational reasons in response to it, are not suitable for friendship. Thoughts of such people may influence you over time and change your life together later. ### Friends who have no restrictions: Friends who allow themselves to be present in your privacy, come to your house unannounced and disrupt your two-person plans, may have destructive effects on your married life in the long run... ### Complaints of friends: People who constantly complain about life and the whole world and try to show their misfortunes. Conditions are toxic people who try to give you negative energy....friendship with such people will not benefit you. ### Friends who encourage you to do bad habits: I'm sure you know people who try to force you into a bad habit or behavior. For example, someone may tell you: (You should always talk at home) or, for example, (You should never apologize after a fight, etc.), such people are directly trying to disrupt the peace of your married life.

Normal friendship from the point of view of men According to research and surveys, most men are more attracted to their (female friends), while women are less attracted to their (male friends)... (no pun intended) he will probably hear his friend's love confessions towards him after some time!

Summary Today, due to the expansion of human relations, communication with the opposite sex has become inevitable, but every person has to have such a relationship in the work environment, educational environment, family relationships, etc.... Since emotional contact with the opposite sex after marriage can harm your spouse mentally and psychologically and make him suspicious, on the other hand, the severe limitation of communication with such people can disrupt your social life.. Therefore, in order not to damage any of your relationships, you should set a **set of limits** for yourself to keep your relationships within a reasonable framework. Whenever you feel, during the day, **thinking about someone other than your spouse** **too much** or feeling **sexual attraction** or even **feelings** for someone, immediately stop your relationship with said person. If you are unable to do so or even control your thoughts, we suggest you attend the **Individual Counseling** sessions held at **Victoria Psychology Centre**...

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