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Preparation for marriage: before
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Preparation for marriage: before

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Mohammad Pirizi

Mohammad Pirizi

Tehran

Counselor and psychologist

Necessary preparations for marriage Many couples who intend to get married, apart from the most important one, which is mental and emotional preparation, think about every preparation such as financial issues... In fact, people who are close to the time of marriage should check whether they are ready to accept the heavy responsibilities of a joint life or not... Self-knowledge stages... Before making any choice, a person must fully know his strengths and weaknesses, determine his life's goals and values... By identifying the criteria for a successful choice, make a worthy choice... You can choose and choose someone who has passed the five stages of maturity (physical, intellectual, social, moral and psychological growth). As a result, these five types of maturity are signs of readiness for marriage. Of course, we cannot ignore the fact that there is no ideal man for us. The most important factors of preparation for marriage ### Initial desire for marriage As the first step in preparing for marriage, you should ask yourself if you are ready to enter a life together that is completely different from single life. Can you commit to this or not? ### Ability to adapt Everyone on this planet is different.... No two people can be the same, life is always full of ups and downs that require patience and adaptability, so if you think you are not capable of adapting to different personality traits, you should first consult an expert in this field and then finalize your decision to get married. Having a good financial status is one of the requirements of being ready for marriage... Signs of being ready for marriage Below are some of the signs of readiness for marriage.... If you have these signs, you are most likely ready for marriage.... - You think beyond issues such as wedding celebrations and wedding shopping and such issues.... - You forget about constant communication with different people.... - You are ready to forgive.... - You have the ability to meet the emotional needs of the other party.... - You have the ability to fully plan for family relationships.... - You are not able to fully plan for family relationships.... - You are not able to plan for family relationships.... are.... - You have the power, you are a decision maker.... - You have reached the right age for marriage.... The most important factors in marriage agreement ### Emotional and intellectual growth In order to have a successful marriage, emotional and intellectual growth is one of the signs of readiness for marriage.... Emotional and intellectual growth is not a factor related to age, but psychological, social and emotional age and physical age are all effective factors in intellectual growth... ### Social growth Social development is another aspect of preparation for marriage... Social development is closely related to intellectual development and they are almost on the same side.... A person who is socially developed knows very well how to communicate with other people, how to deal with any situation and.... ### Similarity in the type of thinking The most important issue that should be considered before marriage is the agreement on the important issues of life; Because the foundations of common life are formed based on this issue.... If you want to have a successful marriage and experience a happy life with your spouse, by reading the article on how to have a successful marriage?. It helps you in this field....
A suitable exercise for pre-marriage preparation To prepare for marriage, share your desires and criteria with your future spouse.... This exercise can help you prepare for marriage and make a better choice... First column: In this column, write down all the qualities that your future spouse must have.... Second column: Here, write down all the characteristics that your future spouse must not have.... In general, which is evident, you are evaluating a relationship based on knowledge and evaluation. You start with the desired person and after a while you will realize how far your expectations column has been completed by interacting with him. As a result, is he your choice as your future wife or not?
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Is love enough for marriage? The answer to this question is simple yet complex.. Love alone is not enough to prepare for marriage... Two people who feel true love for each other consider each other as their ideal... But in the challenges and hardships of life, just being in love does not work... Harmony in joint life can be learned to a great extent... By learning communication skills, the percentage of marriage success can be increased... In joint life, in addition to receiving the feeling of love and being loved, we need compatibility and understanding so that we can easily overcome the difficulties of life... Increasing awareness about issues such as communication, family, marriage, etc., helps us to make a better choice... Premarital counseling.. Many people may think that receiving counseling and using psychological services is limited only when we encounter a problem and we can get help from a counselor to solve that problem, but we can also use the expertise of counselors to make the best decision and prevent problems. Research has shown that more than 80% of people who participated in premarital counseling and counseling sessions before They resolve marriage easily.. Counseling can help people to make sure that they are ready for marriage. Participation in counseling sessions prevents possible mistakes of a person in choosing a spouse and strengthens the signs of readiness for marriage.
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