Attachment in children is one of the important issues.. which should be paid attention to in raising children.... The impact of parents' behavior with children is very important and effective in their success and growth at all ages.... Types of safe and insecure attachment are effective in creating healthy behaviors in adulthood; For this reason, parents should learn how to treat children correctly before having children...so that they can raise healthy children....Types of attachment are effective not only in childhood but also in adulthood and lead to the creation of healthy relationships and a positive view of the world around.... **Attachment theory in children** Attachment theory in children is a clinical term that describes the stable psychological connection between people.. that this emotional bond is created between children and their parents or permanent caregivers.... Attachment is a fundamental aspect of human development and plays an important role in the formation and social, emotional and cognitive development of each person.... Any disorder and loss of this attachment can affect the child emotionally and psychologically and continue until adulthood.. It leads to raising a healthy child... On the other hand Insecure attachment can cause problems in emotions, social interactions and overall human well-being.. Providing a compassionate, responsive and compatible environment can help strengthen healthy attachment relationships and support the emotional well-being of children, which creates safe and healthy attachment in the child.. But parents should also be aware of the types of attachment and the symptoms of each one... Having information about attachment can help improve the well-being and healthy relationship of the child and his parents.. ** Getting to know the four main types of attachment in children ** Attachment, as it was said, is the bond between a child and his parents and has a direct impact on the social, emotional and learning abilities of children... The attachment created in a child is influenced by many factors and the change of these factors can create different types of attachment in a child... Researchers have identified four main types of attachment based on children's behaviors and reactions... which include secure attachment and types of insecure attachment such as resistant attachment, avoidant attachment and disordered attachment. is.. which is created due to the proper behavior and communication of parents with him.... ### **Secure attachment in children** When parents give correct answers to their child's needs... the attachment style that is formed in this child is secure attachment... children with secure attachment have a positive and healthy bond with their caregivers and receive a sense of security, love and support from their parents... children with secure attachment; They believe that humans are good by nature.. but sometimes they may be distrusted.... These children experience more long-term relationships in adulthood and are committed and responsible towards others.... This type of attachment educates people with positive and genuine interpersonal relationships and these people feel satisfied and satisfied with their lives... **Signs of secure attachment in children and adults** - **High trust and confidence:** These people feel secure in their relationships and are sure that their needs and wants are met with their parents... - **Emotional and emotional control:** Secure attachment allows children and adults to develop healthy emotional regulation skills and manage their emotions.. Discover yourself.. These people are curious, independent and independent... but they don't get too close to their parents.. or avoid them. - **Healthy boundaries:** People who have a secure attachment set healthy boundaries for their relationships in childhood and adulthood and respect the boundaries of others... Obsession treatment without drugs.. Biofeedback treatment Treatment of learning disorder with neurofeedback ### **Insecure, resistant or ambivalent attachment** Resistant or ambivalent attachment is one of the types of insecure attachment... This attachment is created in children; The fact that the parents have unstable behavior in establishing an emotional relationship with them, and this has caused these children to be anxious and uncertain about the availability and responsiveness of their caregivers.. Rather, these people should seek help from experts in this field to move their behavior and attachment patterns towards secure attachment. #### **Signs of ambivalent attachment** - **Stress and anxiety:** These people may suffer from chronic stress and anxiety disorders.. because they are constantly worried about being rejected.... Controlling and treating stress and anxiety disorders can improve the conditions of these people... goes; They cannot even do the smallest daily tasks on their own.... - **Inability to trust:** People with ambivalent attachment may have difficulty fully trusting others and be hypervigilant for signs of rejection or betrayal, which leads to a constant state of insecurity in their relationships.... ### **Avoid insecure attachment in children** Children with avoidant attachment seem emotionally distant or distant from their caregivers....They may avoid seeking comfort or closeness and may not show distress after separation....This attachment style can develop when caregivers consistently fail to respond to the child's needs, causing the child to suppress attachment needs and become self-reliant....These children may appear independent and dependent...but in fact fail to develop deep emotional connections. And they struggle... - **Having independence:** Although independence is usually considered a positive trait... But in children with avoidant attachment, it can cause them to distance themselves from their parents... These children may resist or reject the love or support of their caregivers... It may be difficult to establish deep and intimate relationships with others... - **Lack of trust in others:** These children show very little trust in people close to them such as parents or life partners... **** Disordered attachment.. When a child's needs are ignored by their parents.. The child has a disordered or disturbed attachment.. They may show a combination of avoidant and ambivalent attachment behaviors and appear confused or scared in the presence of their parents... #### **Symptoms of disordered attachment** - **Difficulty in creating attachment:** These people face difficulty in creating attachment to others and they face difficulty in creating and maintaining close relationships.... - **Infidelity:** Although people with insecure attachments seem to fall more in love or show excessive attachment... But these people may take the lead in cheating because they have a strong fear of betrayal... - **Self-destructive behaviors:** People who suffer from insecure attachment display self-destructive behaviors such as self-harm and substance abuse.... **Summary** There are many types of attachment in children, and a combination of these attachments may appear in any child. Rather, one should try to create dominant behaviors in the child that exist in safe attachment. **1\_ What factors affect attachment in children?** Responsiveness, stability and sensitivity of the caregivers in meeting the needs of the child are among the factors affecting children's attachment. **2 What are the types of attachment in children?** Types of attachment include secure attachment and types of insecure attachment such as resistant attachment, avoidant attachment and disordered attachment... These people experience more long-term relationships and are committed and responsible towards others... Secure attachment makes people have a positive and realistic view of life...